Comments on: Another Head Cold, Not My Own http://herbadmother.com/2006/08/another-head-cold-not-my-own/ Bad Is The New Good Tue, 22 May 2012 10:16:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Brony http://herbadmother.com/2006/08/another-head-cold-not-my-own/comment-page-1/#comment-3216 Brony Thu, 07 Sep 2006 19:40:00 +0000 http://herbadmother.com/blog/?p=149#comment-3216 Great post. You're right about having things all planned out and watching them change in just a single moment. It keeps us going.<br/><br/>I love the way you describe your connection. You are a lucky mom. That connection is something I often find myself struggling with. Not because I don't love my boys, but because at times I forget to love myself. Great post. You’re right about having things all planned out and watching them change in just a single moment. It keeps us going.

I love the way you describe your connection. You are a lucky mom. That connection is something I often find myself struggling with. Not because I don’t love my boys, but because at times I forget to love myself.

]]> By: chichimama http://herbadmother.com/2006/08/another-head-cold-not-my-own/comment-page-1/#comment-3112 chichimama Sun, 03 Sep 2006 10:35:00 +0000 http://herbadmother.com/blog/?p=149#comment-3112 I hope she is recovered soon. This is such a beautiful post. Much better than my cranky whine would have been in the same situation... I hope she is recovered soon. This is such a beautiful post. Much better than my cranky whine would have been in the same situation…

]]> By: Heather http://herbadmother.com/2006/08/another-head-cold-not-my-own/comment-page-1/#comment-3111 Heather Sun, 03 Sep 2006 04:41:00 +0000 http://herbadmother.com/blog/?p=149#comment-3111 You have this uncanny ability to write things that I think, but would never think to write. Thanks. You have this uncanny ability to write things that I think, but would never think to write. Thanks.

]]> By: Nancy http://herbadmother.com/2006/08/another-head-cold-not-my-own/comment-page-1/#comment-3107 Nancy Sun, 03 Sep 2006 01:16:00 +0000 http://herbadmother.com/blog/?p=149#comment-3107 I hope WonderBaby is feeling better soon. You are right, it's such a difficult and wonderful thing to realize that you and your child are distinct. When they hurt, we hurt as mothers -- yet, we are no longer one with them the way we were when our babies were in the womb.<br/><br/>It's an odd sensation, one which I never would have believed before I had my girls -- being so connected with someone (two someones, in my case) that you are physically distinct from. I hope WonderBaby is feeling better soon. You are right, it’s such a difficult and wonderful thing to realize that you and your child are distinct. When they hurt, we hurt as mothers — yet, we are no longer one with them the way we were when our babies were in the womb.

It’s an odd sensation, one which I never would have believed before I had my girls — being so connected with someone (two someones, in my case) that you are physically distinct from.

]]> By: sunshine scribe http://herbadmother.com/2006/08/another-head-cold-not-my-own/comment-page-1/#comment-3106 sunshine scribe Sat, 02 Sep 2006 20:58:00 +0000 http://herbadmother.com/blog/?p=149#comment-3106 Its like a dance. And we are not alone.<br/><br/>Such beautiful words.<br/><br/>I hope sweet Wonderbaby is feeling better soon. Her boyfriend (Little Sunshine) sends well wishes and a silly face to cheer her up. Its like a dance. And we are not alone.

Such beautiful words.

I hope sweet Wonderbaby is feeling better soon. Her boyfriend (Little Sunshine) sends well wishes and a silly face to cheer her up.

]]> By: tracey http://herbadmother.com/2006/08/another-head-cold-not-my-own/comment-page-1/#comment-3104 tracey Sat, 02 Sep 2006 16:57:00 +0000 http://herbadmother.com/blog/?p=149#comment-3104 Oh, the never ending push and pull of our children to us..back and forth...it's so heartbreaking.<br/><br/>We all know what it is you are feeling. We all go through it again and again. <br/><br/>Thanks for saying it so well, as you always do! Oh, the never ending push and pull of our children to us..back and forth…it’s so heartbreaking.

We all know what it is you are feeling. We all go through it again and again.

Thanks for saying it so well, as you always do!

]]> By: cmhl http://herbadmother.com/2006/08/another-head-cold-not-my-own/comment-page-1/#comment-3101 cmhl Sat, 02 Sep 2006 14:04:00 +0000 http://herbadmother.com/blog/?p=149#comment-3101 beautiful post. I distinctly recall that realization (we are two separate people) with both of my kids. beautiful post. I distinctly recall that realization (we are two separate people) with both of my kids.

]]> By: something blue http://herbadmother.com/2006/08/another-head-cold-not-my-own/comment-page-1/#comment-3100 something blue Sat, 02 Sep 2006 13:18:00 +0000 http://herbadmother.com/blog/?p=149#comment-3100 Yes we are two but why is it that we can't take away their pain, but we certainly feel it? A parent's heart always remains connected to their child. <br/><br/>I'm looking forward to rejoicing in their glee. Seeing their eyes light up with delight will surely make my heart swoon.<br/><br/>Hope WonderBaby feels much, much better. Yes we are two but why is it that we can’t take away their pain, but we certainly feel it? A parent’s heart always remains connected to their child.

I’m looking forward to rejoicing in their glee. Seeing their eyes light up with delight will surely make my heart swoon.

Hope WonderBaby feels much, much better.

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]]> By: penelopeto http://herbadmother.com/2006/08/another-head-cold-not-my-own/comment-page-1/#comment-3098 penelopeto Sat, 02 Sep 2006 03:07:00 +0000 http://herbadmother.com/blog/?p=149#comment-3098 beautiful post. when bumblebee is not feeling well, my heart near about explodes for her - but the cuddles she wants; oh, the cuddles.<br/><br/>congratulations on the perfect post award; this month marked my first, and i see that i am in remarkable company. beautiful post. when bumblebee is not feeling well, my heart near about explodes for her – but the cuddles she wants; oh, the cuddles.

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