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		<title>By: Dagmar Bleasdale</title>
		<link>http://herbadmother.com/2009/07/the-road-hard-travelled/comment-page-1/#comment-29890</link>
		<dc:creator>Dagmar Bleasdale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 04:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aw, I know how that feels! The first time I left L for a night he did just fine, and I did too (I blogged about that), but then little things will make me cry, like leaving him at preschool for a couple of hours or even seeing ANOTHER mom drop off her son for the first time (didn&#039;t blog about that - too embarrassing). So hard to leave them :(

(Love your blog, want to exchange links?)

Best,
Dagmar
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aw, I know how that feels! The first time I left L for a night he did just fine, and I did too (I blogged about that), but then little things will make me cry, like leaving him at preschool for a couple of hours or even seeing ANOTHER mom drop off her son for the first time (didn&#8217;t blog about that &#8211; too embarrassing). So hard to leave them <img src='http://herbadmother.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>(Love your blog, want to exchange links?)</p>
<p>Best,<br />
Dagmar<br />
.-= Dagmar Bleasdale&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/dagmarbleasdale/~3/T-Vwtreook4/" rel="nofollow">I Reached 100 Subscribers of DagmarBleasdale.com!</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Home, Home, Where I Wanted To Be &#124; Her Bad Mother</title>
		<link>http://herbadmother.com/2009/07/the-road-hard-travelled/comment-page-1/#comment-29860</link>
		<dc:creator>Home, Home, Where I Wanted To Be &#124; Her Bad Mother</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 14:43:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] aches. Even my left earlobe can barely support its own weight. I can, however, hug my children (who did just fine without me, thank you very much). Because the ache to hold a creature such as this is far, far stronger than [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] aches. Even my left earlobe can barely support its own weight. I can, however, hug my children (who did just fine without me, thank you very much). Because the ache to hold a creature such as this is far, far stronger than [...]</p>
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		<title>By: LAVENDULA</title>
		<link>http://herbadmother.com/2009/07/the-road-hard-travelled/comment-page-1/#comment-29858</link>
		<dc:creator>LAVENDULA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 14:04:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my baby is 4 and she is on vacation away from me for the first time ever.my poor husband has had to make calls home to me to settle her down (night terrors)and because she won&#039;t stop crying because she misses me so much.its too quiet here with just myself and teenage daughter home.my 8 year old is fine but i miss my big morning hugs from her...hope you enjoy your break and you will get lots of hugs when you get back home</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my baby is 4 and she is on vacation away from me for the first time ever.my poor husband has had to make calls home to me to settle her down (night terrors)and because she won&#8217;t stop crying because she misses me so much.its too quiet here with just myself and teenage daughter home.my 8 year old is fine but i miss my big morning hugs from her&#8230;hope you enjoy your break and you will get lots of hugs when you get back home</p>
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		<title>By: bubbs</title>
		<link>http://herbadmother.com/2009/07/the-road-hard-travelled/comment-page-1/#comment-29855</link>
		<dc:creator>bubbs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 01:23:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow.  am i the only mother who has the simple, unadulterated feeling of JOY at the thought of leaving the sprogs behind?  even the 9 month old. heck, particularly the 9 month old.  can&#039;t wait to get on that plane and not afraid to say it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow.  am i the only mother who has the simple, unadulterated feeling of JOY at the thought of leaving the sprogs behind?  even the 9 month old. heck, particularly the 9 month old.  can&#8217;t wait to get on that plane and not afraid to say it.</p>
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		<title>By: Legs</title>
		<link>http://herbadmother.com/2009/07/the-road-hard-travelled/comment-page-1/#comment-29854</link>
		<dc:creator>Legs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 09:18:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Boy I know how you feel.

This too shall pass.

xoxo
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Boy I know how you feel.</p>
<p>This too shall pass.</p>
<p>xoxo<br />
.-= Legs&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://themilfreport.blogspot.com/2009/07/my-is-back.html" rel="nofollow">My ? is back</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: xandy</title>
		<link>http://herbadmother.com/2009/07/the-road-hard-travelled/comment-page-1/#comment-29850</link>
		<dc:creator>xandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 20:54:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>have missed my 6 and 8 yo for two WEEKS now, and this third week will be the last. I&#039;m sure they will have grown at least an inch. and I KNOW that we all missed each other. And that we all have so much to share and to grow about. It&#039;s all good. Part of the life cycle...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>have missed my 6 and 8 yo for two WEEKS now, and this third week will be the last. I&#8217;m sure they will have grown at least an inch. and I KNOW that we all missed each other. And that we all have so much to share and to grow about. It&#8217;s all good. Part of the life cycle&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 13:47:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so sorry to tell you this but this will happen again and again as they get older.  The first day of school I was a wreck.  Walking away from the school I didn&#039;t think I would make it all the way home before my heart broke.  The first time they went on a school sleep away trip I thought my heart was being pulled out.  And now just talking to my son about the colleges he is looking at I start to cry.  They are such a gift and I know we raise them to grow up and become independent but my heart breaks just thinking about it.  Hope you have a great trip.
.-= Ann&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.annsrunningcommentary.com/?p=101&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Running Away&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so sorry to tell you this but this will happen again and again as they get older.  The first day of school I was a wreck.  Walking away from the school I didn&#8217;t think I would make it all the way home before my heart broke.  The first time they went on a school sleep away trip I thought my heart was being pulled out.  And now just talking to my son about the colleges he is looking at I start to cry.  They are such a gift and I know we raise them to grow up and become independent but my heart breaks just thinking about it.  Hope you have a great trip.<br />
.-= Ann&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.annsrunningcommentary.com/?p=101" rel="nofollow">Running Away</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: A River Runs Through It &#124; Her Bad Mother</title>
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		<dc:creator>A River Runs Through It &#124; Her Bad Mother</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 13:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: juli</title>
		<link>http://herbadmother.com/2009/07/the-road-hard-travelled/comment-page-1/#comment-29846</link>
		<dc:creator>juli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 04:29:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been apart from my still nursing twenty month old a precious few times in his life; the longest being a 4 night trip halfway across the country. In my admittedly limited experience I&#039;ve found that the anticipation of leaving him is much harder than actually being gone. Once I am distracted by my new environment I can really settle in and trust that he is having as good a time as I am. I hope the same for you. Praying for you and your trip.
.-= juli&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://stopairingourpersonalbusinessonline.blogspot.com/2009/07/then-and-now.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Then and Now&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been apart from my still nursing twenty month old a precious few times in his life; the longest being a 4 night trip halfway across the country. In my admittedly limited experience I&#8217;ve found that the anticipation of leaving him is much harder than actually being gone. Once I am distracted by my new environment I can really settle in and trust that he is having as good a time as I am. I hope the same for you. Praying for you and your trip.<br />
.-= juli&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://stopairingourpersonalbusinessonline.blogspot.com/2009/07/then-and-now.html" rel="nofollow">Then and Now</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Haley-O</title>
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		<dc:creator>Haley-O</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 03:56:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remember the first time I left my very clingy Rascal at around ~16mo. It was for a trip to Bermuda for a friend&#039;s wedding. I went on my own and left the hub with the kids. It was SO hard. But, I QUICKLY let go of the sadness and enjoyed the heck out of myself. This time to ourselves is so key to our happiness, and to our children&#039;s -- whether they know it or not.
.-= Haley-O&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CheatyMonkey/~3/1ulHZLYHu5o/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;WHAT I’M BRINGING TO BLOGHER&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember the first time I left my very clingy Rascal at around ~16mo. It was for a trip to Bermuda for a friend&#8217;s wedding. I went on my own and left the hub with the kids. It was SO hard. But, I QUICKLY let go of the sadness and enjoyed the heck out of myself. This time to ourselves is so key to our happiness, and to our children&#8217;s &#8212; whether they know it or not.<br />
.-= Haley-O&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CheatyMonkey/~3/1ulHZLYHu5o/" rel="nofollow">WHAT I’M BRINGING TO BLOGHER</a> =-.</p>
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